Diana Wiley

Laura Corn, author of “101 Nights of Great Sex” — Jan. 22, 2019

January 23, 2019 By Diana Wiley

As we’re building toward Valentine’s Day in a few weeks, Laura Corn, the author of 101 Nights of Great Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples, joined the program. She is the perfect guest to talk about romance! Her books have sold almost four million copies. Laura is curious about erotic formulas: blank + blank = great sex. I like sensual pleasure + playfulness = great sex. Laura’s book is one you do, pulling out invitations/seductions – some for her eyes only, some for his eyes only. Then follow the recipe and have fun! When every sense is stimulated often the lover is able to be more fully in the moment, feeling more alive and sexual. We are creating memories … perhaps this is more important as we age. When I think of my husband and me, I realize we are two experienced people who have a past, yet everything is still possible! A book like Laura’s can help the passion persist.

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Dr. Charlie Glickman, author of “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” — Jan. 15, 2019

January 16, 2019 By Diana Wiley

Dr. Charlie Glickman (www.CharlieGlickman.com) is the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure. This is a man who knows about prostates! There is much pleasure to be had – with some guidance and an open mind. Dr. Diana and Dr. Charlie explored questions about common concerns, what is the prostate, why do men enjoy prostate play, different ways to explore it, and pegging. The female G-spot is similar to the prostate, and for both genders stimulation of these spots can lead to bigger, more full-bodied orgasms. (See more details about Dr. Charlie and his offerings at www.MakeSexEasy.com.) We spoke about fears some heterosexual men have about receiving anal/prostate pleasure, fearing that it might make them gay. Dr. Charlie pointed out that sexual orientation is more about who you want to be with, and that’s different than what you want to do. Dr. Charlie offers a half-hour free phone consultation. He has spoken to people all over the world … asking what do they want, and suggesting how to make it happen. He is a wise and knowledgeable sex and relationship coach. Tune in for more!

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Dr. Charlie Glickman, author of “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” — Jan. 8, 2019

January 9, 2019 By Diana Wiley

What does a real man look like? Charlie Glickman, Ph.D., speaks about acting like a man in a box. The video on this subject can be found at www.CharlieGlickman.com. He is a sex and relationship coach, a sexuality educator and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. Dr. Diana and Dr. Charlie spoke about the pressure for many men to “enforce” the box. Doing so may manifest in performance anxiety, erectile problems – and in seeking out distractions like working a lot, drinking too much, having a lot of sex partners, etc. A man can ask, “What turns me on?…What slows me down?” Sex is not about a man’s penis (although porn is totally penis-focused). Great sex involves the entire body – based on leisurely, playful, whole-body sensuality for both partners. Next week we will discuss prostate pleasure and more! Dr. Charlie’s book is The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure. See more information at www.MakeSexEasy.com.

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Stephen Snyder, M.D., author of “Love Worth Making” — December 18, 2018

December 19, 2018 By Diana Wiley

Stephen Snyder, M.D., author of Love Worth Making – How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship, returned to the program. He and Dr. Diana explored these topics: Can erotic love last? – and, Why men and women don’t understand each other. The good doctor says you don’t need desire to have good sex. Slow down…it’s going to be okay. Dr. Snyder suggests spending time in bed naked doing nothing together. Mindfulness, and being aware of your breathing and your senses may contribute to a growing arousal. Sex is all about paying attention. She may try to get his attention by showing what she has, who she is. The man, through his behavior, may show what he is capable of doing. In recent times, the power dynamic has shifted, and this is confusing for some men. There’s more, of course, in this fascinating show…Listen in! Dr. Snyder’s website is www.LoveWorthMaking.com.

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Jessa Zimmerman, author of “Sex Without Stress” — Dec. 4, 2018

December 5, 2018 By Diana Wiley

Jessa Zimmerman – www.JessaZimmerman.com – author of Sex without Stress – A Couple’s Guide to Overcoming Disappointment, Avoidance, & Pressure returned to the program. This time we focused on “The Nine Phases of Taking the Stress Out of Sex.” Phase 1 is prioritizing intimacy – where it’s not just sex you’re scheduling; rather, it’s a trip to the playground. It’s important to just show up. With this sort of journey, there are no expectations, and you are seeing it as an opportunity to have fun. And, having fun together often fosters desire! There are many benefits derived from the giver-receiver exercises: one is that you need to take care of yourself, the foundation of trust. We also discussed exploring eroticism, her book’s Phase 9, where it is important to take and allow pleasure. Consent is built into this exercise. Practicing emotional surrender by reminding yourself of what you are especially grateful for in your lover…Be playful and expressive. Laugh! The articulate, informed Jessa will return in the new year.

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Brad Coates, Esq., author of “Divorce with Decency” — Nov. 20, 2018

November 23, 2018 By Diana Wiley

Brad Coates (www.CoatesandFrey.com) and Dr. Diana enjoyed a conversation about America’s growing gender gap between men and women. His book, Divorce with Decency (Fifth Edition), is a comprehensive treatment of the legal, emotional, economic, psychological, and social aspects of marital relationships. We looked at women’s increasing educational, economic, and political power. Porn is part of the erotic erosion between men and women; in fact, it may be a scapegoat for all the conversations men and women are not having. Couples almost never discuss their sexual desires and fantasies. Man are more likely to soothe themselves by turning to solitary pleasures and paid ones – less emotionally complicated forms of sex. The #MeToo movement has led to further divisiveness with an expanded awareness of the prevalence of abuse/assault. Of course, not all guys are bad dudes! But some women are feeling safer with other women. There’s more…please tune in!

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