Scott Haltzman, M.D., author of “The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity” Part 2 — May 6, 2014

Secrets of Surviving Infidelity

Scott Haltzman, M.D., author of “The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity” returned to the program. In this Part 2, he and Dr. Diana discussed the steps in ending an affair, principles of the apology, guidelines for recovery, and the one rule for a happy marriage. He calls the latter the platinum rule: Treat people as they wish to be treated…Dr. Scott writes, “When people genuinely take an interest in what makes their mates tick and nurture those passions, their mate notices. When a mate feels loved, more often than not he or she gives love in return.” This amounts to giving your spouse a gift, what they want, even if they don’t always want the same thing. There is so much more in this wise psychiatrist’s latest book!  (www.DrScott.com)

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Dr. Pepper Schwartz, author of “Dating After 50 for Dummies” — April 29, 2014

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Dr. Pepper Schwartz  (www.DrPepperSchwartz.com) discussed her nineteenth book “Dating After 50” (for the DUMMIES brand). Some things about dating never change, no matter how old you are – and this book contains information that applies to people far younger. Dr. Pepper and Dr. Diana discussed GETTING STARTED: being psychologically prepared, knowing your core requirements, brushing up on conversational skills – and even having a relaxed face. The online dating profile is important. How does one create an honest and appealing profile? The two Docs went on to talking about SEX: the love map, giving instructions, body image, safer sex, and more. The interview concluded with two parts of Dr. Pepper’s book: challenges to overcome as well as the signs of a solid and worthy relationship. Dr. Pepper offers good, solid, practical advice. Please listen because you will benefit!

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Scott Haltzman, M.D. author of “The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity” — April 22, 2014

Secrets of Surviving Infidelity

Scott Haltzman, M.D. author of “The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity” and Dr. Diana discussed complicated issues surrounding cheating. Our culture seems almost steeped in infidelity, so much so that a jeweler ran ads showing an engagement ring with this tag on it: “Virtually eliminates cheating, since you’ll never want to take it off.” It’s enough to make one wonder: Have we reached the point where staying true to our partner is more a pipe dream than practical? Dr. Scott sorted this out in the PRN interview – and more thoroughly in his excellent book. Why do men and women cheat?  Is infidelity a result of a bad marriage or an inattentive spouse? What is flame addiction? What are the four steps in ending an affair – and why is it sometimes so tough to break it off? It’s a good thing Dr. Scott will return for Part 2, May 6, 2014, because time ran out and we only got the first two steps. In the meantime, go to www.DrScott.com for more information about this brilliant, intuitive, articulate Psychiatrist!

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Dr. Linda De Villers, author of “Love Skills” — April 15, 2014

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The Language of Touch. We speak of being “in touch” or “out of touch” – while nurturing is “a healing touch.” Dr. Linda De Villers is an internationally recognized authority on human sexuality who has written most recently about TOUCH. Her previous writings include two books on “Love Skills” and “Simple Sexy Food” (www.SimpleSexyFood.com). She and Dr. Diana spoke about getting in touch with touch. A few of the topics they covered: touch in a baby’s life; how different cultures embrace touch – or don’t; the distinction between sensuality and sexuality; the limitations and benefits of caressing exercises. In her practice she helps couples use caressing exercises to enrich sensual connection and evoke ecstatic experience! So much can be expressed with touch – acceptance, love, disapproval, and desire. It’s important to make deliberate efforts to touch more…For the details, please tune in.

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Joan Moran, author of “Sixty, Sex & Tango” — April 8, 2014

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Joan Moran, author of “Sixty, Sex and Tango,” a popular keynote speaker, and an insightful blogger for The Huffington Post, returned to the program. Joan’s “10 Ways to Measure Your Life” began with simplification. She explains that living light eliminates the superfluous and reframes mindsets that reflect purpose. Another measure is this: Are you going about the business of being you every day? Joan stresses that you are unique unto yourself. Dr. Diana’s client had an insightful and moving realization: her personal anger and conflict was with herself. Dr. Diana and Joan spoke about ways to increase self-acceptance. Stretching the mind: you can use your mind as a “remote control” to determine which of life’s channels you are going to tune into – deciding which important messages you are going to transmit to the outside world through your behavior. Do you keep an open mind and heart? Minds are like parachutes – they only function when open! Passion was discussed, and if not now, when? No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up! For more from Joan please visit www.JoanFrancesMoran.com.

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Kuba Oms, singer/songwriter “Sex is Good” — April 1, 2014

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Love, Lust and Laughter” had a special musical intro and outro – “Sex is Good!”  The guest Kuba Oms – www.KubaOms.com – wrote and sang that sexy music, so appropriate for this program which promotes healthy and happy sexuality! Kuba is a fixture in the Canadian music scene, winning the National Songwriting Competition. He and Dr. Diana discussed how his music has evolved: he has always been keen on strong melodies, but now lyric content is just as important. Music can transform an ordinary sexual experience into a mind-blowing one! Before the break his song “My Love” played all the way through. They spoke about music, sex, and laughter – as well as about music therapy. You will want to download Kuba’s inspirational, make-you-want-to dance – (or make love) – music!

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Dr. Dudley Danoff, author of “Penis Power” — Mar. 25, 2014

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Dr. Dudley Danoff, founder and president of the Cedars-Sinai Tower Urology Medical Group in Los Angeles, returned to the program to further unzip the secrets of male sexual health and power. His fascinating, informative book is “PENIS POWER – The Ultimate Guide to Male Sexual Health.” This time, in Part 2, he and Dr. Diana discussed the life story of the penis (including aging and sexuality); the superpotent man (his attitude, happiness, the realities of movie stars and porn actors); performance anxiety; delaying ejaculation – among other sexual/relationship matters. Yes, we want to banish stress from the bedroom and make sex fun again! Please listen if more sexual play without the anxiety is your goal!

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Joan Moran, author of “Sixty, Sex & Tango” — Mar. 18, 2014

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Joan Moran, author of “Sixty, Sex & Tango,” and a popular keynote speaker – www.JoanFrancesMoran.com – once again joined Dr. Diana to share her daily techniques for optimal wellness, staying sexy, strong and smart. Joan’s signature headstand is a metaphor for being brave…doing one thing a day that makes you feel brave – stretching your mind in the process! Her yoga and meditation practices clear her mind so that she is less resistant and reactionary; therefore, she can be more mindful and in the moment. Joan reminds us to take the time to follow our passions with gratitude and wisdom. Approaches and solutions are offered – so that our older years can be more enjoyable. This is a program for any age…Life experience wisdom is invaluable!

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Michael Castleman, author of “Great Sex” — Mar. 11, 2014

Great Sex book cover (angled)Michael Castleman, author of “GREAT SEX – A MAN’S GUIDE TO THE SECRET PRINCIPLES OF TOTAL-BODY SEX” – returned to the show. His website www.GreatSexAfter40.com is an excellent, interactive, informative place for all ages. Dr. Diana and Michael discussed stress, anxiety and sex. For example, a foot massage is great because all major nerve lines converge in the feet! They also talked about sex and humor/laughter. Yes, PLAY! Humor has detoxifying and defusing abilities that go a long ways to keeping relationships intact. Nowhere is humor more necessary than in the bedroom! The immune system can be boosted by good sex – raising the levels of endorphins. Keeping your relationship healthy can be a laughing matter! They also discussed sex toys and how some men find them competition; whereas, they can be a friend – a friend who doesn’t ever get tired. Vibrators can’t kiss or hold a woman, and some women need the added stimulation to reach orgasm. Finally, they talked about penis size, making peace with one’s penis, and positions to play with. Men hung up on penis size don’t understand good sex. Listen, please, for lots of additional information!

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Ageless Living Expo Appearance on March 1, 2014

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Dr. Diana shares the stage with Michael Forbes, organizer of the Ageless Living Expo and Gala on March 1, 2014 in Victoria, British Columbia. Earlier in the day Dr. Diana spoke to attendees about the health benefits of maintaining an active sex life well into one’s senior citizen years. The expo was followed by an evening gala featuring a dancing competition and live music by Kuba Oms, a Victoria-based recording artist, who premiered the song Sex is Good from his newly released album entitled “ADHD.”

On the Friday before the Expo, Dr. Diana was interviewed on CBC radio in Victoria on the “All Points West” program with Jo-Ann Roberts. Click here to listen to a recording of the interview (approx. 9 minutes).