Howie Gordon, author of “Hindsight” — Oct. 29, 2013

Porn_Barnstar_Hires -- smallHowie Gordon, a.k.a. Richard Pacheco, returned for Part 2. He and Dr. Diana discussed more in “HINDSIGHT.” Did his films educate men to please women? What kind of closure did he get as a result of the WORLD PORNOGRAPHY CONFERENCE – where Betty Dodson and Nina Hartley played significant roles?  Here is a part of his talk at this conference: “People were all uptight about sex, but there was no reason to be! We were like noble rogues in some divinely human struggle to make life in a body easier. It was important work! My generation tried to make lust respectable!” We discussed Howie’s life post-porn – including the documentary “After Porn Ends.” Howie and Nina have important messages here. At the end, we discussed a final chapter which looks at his 14-year-old first love, Sally. There was “forty-four years of foreplay.” Of this experience, Howie writes, “Life gave us a pass. We were the fourteen-year-old kids again. Only this time, we were not afraid of sexual pleasure. We had the benefit of knowledge and appreciation. There was no fear and there was no shame. There was consummation. There was completion.”  What a way to end this program!

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Howie Gordon, author of “Hindsight” — Oct. 22, 2013

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Love, Lust & Laughter Radio Interview — Oct. 22, 2013.

Howie Gordon, a.k.a Richard Pacheco, has written a fascinating and illuminating memoir: HINDSIGHT: True Love & Mischief in The Golden Age of Porn. The book’s foreword is by his friend Whoopi Goldberg. Dr. Diana and Howie discussed how his failures became his successes, how he tackled rejection head-on! We also talked about the psychology of porn, the deeper meanings of his work, and some of his favorite actresses. There is so much material; thank goodness Howie will return next week for Part 2! Meantime, look for his outstanding book at BearManor Media or on

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Brad Coates, author of “Divorce With Decency” — Oct. 15, 2013

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Love, Lust & Laughter Radio Interview, Oct. 15, 2013

Bradley Coates, Esq. returned to the program. He is the author of the award-winning 4th Edition of “Divorce with Decency – The Complete How To Handbook and Survivor’s Guide to the Legal, Emotional, Economic, and Social Issues.”  The topic we discussed was the 7 MegaTrends of the New Millennium – which include the women’s movement, cohabitation, the impact of social media and the internet, the proliferation of porn, civil unions, “gray” divorces, and the possible “end of marriage.” Brad is articulate and has a sense of humor…He’ll be back for sure! Meantime, you can get his excellent book on

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